Happy? Mother’s Day

Dear One Tough Mother, This weekend is Mother’s Day and my Mother is gone. She passed 4 years ago and we have no children, we have dogs. My husband’s Mother lives about 1/2 hour from us and she is horrible. She is demeaning, rude, demanding and cruel to my...

Mr.

Hi Karen just trying to get some answers as you alreay know . Been tough on me. Wish I could chat with you on this . I hope your Holidays were great . Dear Mr Pending, Thank you, my holidays have been crazy but great. Big families are just that, big and CRAZY....

Soul Mate in a friend

I’ve had this best friend for a year and half. She’s a young wife like me, with a great husband. We connected instantly. She’s constantly saying I’m her “soul mate”. Which describes it perfectly. Not in a romantic way. I’ve...

To early to ask for a raise?

Dear one tough muther, I have been working at my job for 5 months, coming up on 6 months in July. Is it to early to ask how to move up pay rate wise? I was thinking of mentioning that if there is a online course that I would need to take that I would be willing to...

Comfortable

I’ve never been comfortable in my own skin, I’ve always felt awkward and anxious in social settings. I can’t seem to get my body how I want, do my hair or makeup how I want, or be the person that I am around my family. It’s hard for me to...

Lost time

Dear OTM, I am a 46 year old mother of two that is very recently divorced. My husband and I were married for 25 years and one day he just sprung out of the blue that he wanted a new life. It was gut wrenching and has been the hardest most trying time of my life with...