Are all mother in-law , daughter in-law relationships hell?!? Honestly my mother in-law thinks I am the devil who swooped in and has taken over her baby boys life. Everything I do is wrong. Everything I say is wrong. Technically she isn’t my mother in-law yet ,but her son and I have a two year old son together and a mortgage.

Dear Jill,

I sure as hell hope not, because I am a Mother-in-law times two. My first question is, what does your hubby say about Mommy Dearest? Does he say she is overbearing, opinionated and out of control OR does he say you are out of mind?
My second question is, have you ever addressed your Monster in-law and asked her why she doesn’t like you?
Jill, nine times out of ten when you address someone and shine the spot light on their behavior they either explain their actions or defend them. This will give you a chance to find out where she are coming from and why then maybe address some of her issues.
Either way Jill, people can only treat you and talk to you the way you allow them to, so stop allowing it. Step up to demented Mommy and get it resolved, who knows you may become friends.

Good Luck & Huge Muther Hugs,

One Tough Muther

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