Dear One Tough Muther,
I met a man online on facebook. We talk a lot, and sometimes are very intimate and romantic. It is amazing but it is only through a computer screen or phone screen. I have never met this man and I do not intend to but we send pictures back and forth so I have seen his handsome face. I do not intend on loosing him either, he’s amazing. I must mention that I am married though. It is a good marriage, it is what a marriage should be but I was seeking some lifting up, and this other man makes me feel alive. Sometimes I feel guilty because I am sneaking around but this isn’t really cheating is it? There has been no physical contact.
It is absolutely cheating, emotional cheating.
You can’t have one man on your mind and another man in your bed, someone is going to suffer. You are married and say you have a good marriage and you are risking it for someone you have only met on line?
Stop, stop now before this fantasy becomes a reality and you lose your husband for a face on a monitor. You don’t truly know this man, are not in his “real” everyday life and only know what HE allows you to know about him, from him. You are going down a very slippery sloop and if you don’t stop the free fall you will end up dropped you on your head.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, don’t wait to learn this lesson and end up with nothing in your nest.
Good Luck and Huge Muther Hugs,
One Tough Muther