I just need some advice. I have 2 things going on in the same day, one is a baby shower and the other is a small day party. The party is earlier in the day and the baby shower starts later. I already said I would go to both. Is it rude to show up late to a baby shower she is my close friend so I’m sure she would understand, but then again I don’t want to be rude and walk in and have all eyes on me. I could easily not go to the party but I wanted to go because it’s a fundraiser & last year I had fun. I would probably be like an hour and a half late or so. What would you do?

Dear Kailee,

In the beginning of the letter I thought hey a few minutes late, no problem, but an hour and a half to a baby shower, no way.
My suggestion…choose. Go to one or the other. A baby shower isn’t much over 3 1/2 hours total so you would be missing almost half. I understand your wanting to do both but I think that is impossible and showing up that late would look rude.
So Kailee, the ball is in your court.

Good Luck & Huge Muther Hugs,

One Tough Muther

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