Women are sensitive right? We are.. A friend of mine has been heavy for awhile but the last time I saw her, I swear she looked like she was thinner. I’m dieing to ask if she lost weight but I’m afraid of it coming off as an insult. Maybe she’ll think I’ve noticed how heavy she’s been . Should I say anything?

Dear Ray,

Sure but say it is a very complimentary way like, “Wow, you always look so great, what do you do?” then is she says she is dieting and exercise…bingo! Losing weight it is such hard work that it is very rewarding when someone notices it.
It’s like a huge pat on the back! So ope up with a compliment and see where it goes.

Huge Muther Hugs,

One Tough Muther

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